Let’s not be too quick to judge. A simple tantrum is usually more than it looks. Let’s take a look at some common myths about Sensory Processing Disorders.

We’ve all been there – as an onlooker, we have averted our gaze uncomfortably when a child at the grocery check out queue acts out. As a parent, you probably can’t count the times shushing your child hurriedly during an unexpected meltdown, anxious that the tantrum might escalate, doing everything humanly possible to calm them down.

The rare, compassionate soul who reaches out during these seemingly embarrassing times is a lifesaver. Someone who goes out of their way to simply lend a hand, someone who gives you a reassuring smile, someone who offers to help while seated beside you on the plane, while you’re frantically keeping your baby quiet – these are the best people, don’t you agree?

Usually, these kind, helpful strangers have a deeper level of empathy when they see a child in the middle of a meltdown. More than likely, they are either a carer for a person living with a disability, a parent or  family members of a child with autism, or a special needs teacher or worker. Whatever the case may be, they understand that a child who acts out is like an onion. The layers have to be peeled, and appropriate steps need to be taken, in order for them to successfully calm down.

For this blog, our team has gathered down four common misconceptions about children (or adults) who struggle with sensory processing disorder.

Whether you are aware that your child is struggling with sensory processing or you have a feeling that your child might just have it, it’s always good to be aware, regardless.

Before going any further, just what is Sensory Processing Disorder?

Simply put, sensory processing disorder is neural condition where the brain has difficulty receiving and responding to information that comes in through the senses. Usually, people who suffer from this disorder are highly sensitive to certain objects or experiences that may cause them to feel pained or overwhelmed.

Now that we know what it is, let’s get down to breaking down the four most common myths about it:

1: “That child is Autistic”

FALSE.

Truth: While it’s true that children with autism deal with mild to extreme sensory issues; children who have issues with sensory processing are not always Autistic.

2: “The kid’s just overreacting; leave them alone and they’ll calm down”

FALSE.

Truth: The tantrum or meltdown is the result  of the disorder. A child who has issues with sensory processing are not always able to express themselves properly. They can’t say in plain words, “This is overwhelming me” or “Can we go? I feel uncomfortable.” Sometimes they can, but usually they can’t. Other times, they may display non-verbal cues that they are feeling overwhelmed.  The truth is, a child struggling with sensory processing also struggle with sensory or motor input. This might cause them to behave in such a way that is misinterpreted as an “overreaction”; but the underlying cause is that their brain is having difficulty processing sensory input/output.

And it is definitely not okay to leave them alone or let them “cry it out”. It’s no surprise that tantrums like these happen in crowded places and not at home – in the middle of a birthday party, at the airport, in the middle of a family event, etc. There may be some “triggers” for the child that you are oblivious of. To calm the child down, the best thing to do is to always whisk them away to a quieter space, have them hold on to a comfort item (like a blanket or favorite toy or even an emotional support pet).

Perfect spaces for calming down are our specially-designed, calming sensory rooms and products. You might want to check out our shop here.

3: “The child just needs more discipline”

FALSE.

Truth: While parenting is really just synonymous to “disciplining”; children who struggle with sensory processing do not need it when they are overwhelmed. What they need is empathy and understanding. More importantly, they also need tools and strategies that allow them to improve and cope with their issues such as occupational therapy or sensory supports such as calming sensory space. Consider creating one even in an empty hallway! Find our blog about a sensory hallway here.

4: “Sensory processing disorder isn’t a real medical condition”

FALSE.

Truth: While it is not currently a “medically distinct diagnosis”; we can assure you that it is a very real condition. Both children and adults suffer from sensory processing disorder. Their struggles are very real and they deal with it on a daily basis. If you are not sure if a loved one is dealing with sensory processing disorder, you may consult with an occupational therapist.

We hope you liked our myth-busters as much as we loved writing about it!

Remember:

Be that kind stranger. Be that compassionate soul. Be that understanding person who shows kindness, always. When you are equipped with the right knowledge, you might just be a special needs’ parent’s superhero.

Consult with the PSB team today and we’ll help you design calming sensory space for your home or office. Contact us anytime.